By Rosemary Carver
That’s why I hate myself and sit here in dust and ashes to show my sorrow. (Job 42:6)
We all seem to have times when we get so upset with ourselves.
When the road of life seems too hard and we feel so ill-equipped to handle things.
It’s in those times we seem to fall into “stinking thinking.”
I love Job! He was a man who loved his family so very much.
He had possessions in life and all the “things” of success that so many people strive for.
However, what he had that was a true treasure was his heart for God.
Many years ago, a man named Job lived in the land of Uz.
He was a truly good person, who respected God and refused to do evil. (Job 1:1)
How different it is with people in the world who grasp for “success.”
Furthermore, what I incredibly find impressive was his love and concern for his kids.
After each feast, Job would send for his children and perform a ceremony, as a way of asking God to forgive them of any wrongs they may have done. He would get up early the next morning and offer a sacrifice for each of them, just in case they had sinned or silently cursed God. (Job 1:5)
He had kids like kids today who loved to party hearty.
Lovingly concerned about their well-being, he did not pester them.
I am sure they knew what he thought just as our kids do today.
Instead, he got up early and did what he could.
As parents, we sometimes worry about what they are doing or may be going through.
At times, we fault ourselves thinking that we did not teach them well or guide them properly.
And we get overwhelmed by all the “what ifs.”
Why am I discouraged? Why am I restless? I trust you! And I will praise you again because you help me, and you are my God. (Psalm 43:5)
We need to remember that timing is everything.
But I pray to you, LORD. So when the time is right, answer me and help me with your wonderful love. (Psalm 69:13)
God has the best in mind for us and for our children.
Often times, what is best is for the “right time” to open their eyes, to be ready for the life lesson.
Even if sometimes, like Job’s, friends or family members seem to all say just the wrong things.
God is our mighty fortress, always ready to help in times of trouble. (Psalm 46:1)
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come to you today so very thankful!
Thankful that we are Yours and that Your love for us is bigger than anything we ever face.
Help us, Lord, when we feel overwhelmed by the difficulties in our lives.
We lift up our children to You asking that Your will and Your way be done.
Thank you that Your love for them is so much greater than the love we have.
Help them to be the people you have designed them to be.
In those dark times of self-doubt, help us to clearly see that You are with us and for us!
Then the LORD replied, “I promise to protect you, and when disaster comes, even your enemies will beg you for help.” (Jeremiah 15:11)
Help us this day to stand in full confidence that You have a plan in all of it; a plan to help our children and us.
We lift up all those things that cause us to have great concerns.
Help us to leave them with You, knowing that You are never surprised by anything.
Help us to remember that You always work all things for our good.
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)
Even before sunrise, I pray for your help, and I put my hope in what you have said. (Psalm 119:147)
In Jesus name we pray. AMEN.

